We’ve all got to deal with criticism, but those of us who put our work out there for public display for our jobs deal with it every single day – often several times a day. The only difference is that we designers call such criticism “critique,” but no matter how you sugar coat the name it doesn’t lessen the sting of peoples’ opinion of your hard work.

How do you cope with the daily abuse? There are several techniques and schools of thought on this one, but before you go out and buy a Zen garden for your desk to help ease the stress, let’s focus on what it is we are presenting for critique. Whether you are presenting the fruits of your creative process to your peers, an unforgiving boss or the all important client you should always remember two things:

1     The layout was commissioned by someone else to reflect their wants, not yours

2     It isn’t going to hang on your living room wall

In my years of experience I’ve learned that there is only so much personal passion that you can put into pitching your ideas. There’s nothing worse than misplaced or overzealous passion for ones designs.

Designer: “This layout carries a theme of social awareness that we all should strive to reflect. If you’ll notice, the generous use of the color green to promote a very earth friendly message and the headline touting the word ‘FRESH’ makes the reader believe they can make a difference – a fresh new start, if you will…”

Client: “I don’t like the color green, and can you change the word ‘fresh’ to something peppier? I dunno, my granddaughter always says ‘super dee duper.’ That’s kind of cute. Yeah, let’s use that.  I also think that we should make the product bag of kitty litter take up half the page.

In a matter of seconds some fat-head has just shot down every aspect of your layout that you thought had any redeeming value. He missed all the subtext of the ad and you are shaking your head thinking he just doesn’t get it. Well, my fine friend I feel your pain, but unless you client is Al Gore you’ll never be able to get him to care about anything more than the kitty litter, let alone your earth friendly message. Many times you’ll have to bite your tongue and simply make the adjustments he’s asked for. Other times, you can (you must) toss out alternatives to ‘super dee duper’ that you may be able to convince him are more palatable to the target audience. Whatever the compromise, you must remember that it’s the client’s layout, not yours.

Don’t get me wrong, every designer must add their personal touch to the layout. That’s why the client hired you, after all, but the key is to not get carried away and understand the goal of your assignment first and foremost. If you remember that, then you can handle any critique with ease.

There is another way to turn someone else’s lemons into your lemonade, however. Because we designers are always looking for new pieces to add to our portfolios – and let’s face it, a strong portfolio is the ultimate goal to pleasing a designer’s soul – you can confidently use your original version that you felt so passionate about as a portfolio piece. Viola! Everybody wins.